After the birth of my first child I was, like my body had changed devastated. I was terrified when I looked in the mirror, once again my perfect body with leased pointy breasts, narrow waist, flat belly and perfect, smooth skin. I could not believe that my breasts, with flows of stretch marks and three times its previous size was recorded. My stomach tight time and even now were covered with stretch marks, and laughing when I tried to put on underwear . I could not think ofwas demolished my revealing, sexy clothes hot momma, and if I ever had sex, at least not see the rapist to be interested in my body disfigured. I cried uncontrollably when the nurse assured me that I was just going through postpartum depression. After months of worship my beautiful child, I understood that the lines of a great story to tell, because my body is changed to match the increasing longevity of me. These lines were beginning a new chapter in my life.
Oneirony of the birth of a child, even if my body had carried out the latest incarnation of femininity, which allows you to distribute food to develop into an embryo a human being and nutrition, I have never felt more ugly, fat and little handsome. Many doctors and nurses to describe the emotional changes that women go through postpartum depression after the birth. Oxford Medical Dictionary describes postpartum depression as a psychiatric illness that occurs after emotional birth.is characterized by symptoms of mild to severe, suicidal ideation, psychosis, depression. "
I have no medical background, but I believe that postpartum depression is partly due to the means of mass communication, which constantly failed the trust of a woman and self-esteem, with ads for cosmetic surgery and anti-aging to promote causes. It 'very difficult for the average woman to accept the love and value in a society that constantly bombarded with messages of Beinginadequate and not good enough to be a valuable member of society. The nurse insisted that I was struck by a hormonal imbalance, but I knew why I was depressed. I was sad because I knew my life would never be the same. Yes, mostly, with a new mom is a happy event, but to change many things about my lifestyle would be forever.
Physical changes during and after pregnancy has forced me to look at my body with a whole new perspective, Mother Nature seriously informedme that my breasts were not just for sexual pleasure, especially if my breasts were full of milk and started to pain. We should not even begin to think of stitches after vaginal delivery (episiotomy) to. The essence of my female body was directly connected with nature, a continuation of life. My body, unless the tunnel, which ran from life in the physical world. I realized that clean for me, sex is not merely an expression of love, affection or pleasure romantic, but this is my body couldreference to the nature of the two men. And if my husband was able to get away from our love, our lives and our child, I could not. My body is not only on the condition of the avenue, but the foundation that would provide everything necessary to help the lives of our children.
Although I can feed my body was proud after the pregnancy was over, I have no visible signs on my body, beat me, or others that a developing country was once the life within it wantsstomach. For one reason or another, women in American culture does not brag physically looked like we never have a child. I immediately thought that the best compliment that I'm a big girl who told me was: "You do not look like a mom." It 'funny how we accept the snails (passion fruit stamps) that symbolize the body's desire for our friend, and let's face reality Hickey physically attractive? Sororities and fraternities mark its members as a symbol of unity. Solderare proud of their wounds in battle. Unfortunately, most women do not want to erase the signs of pregnancy or childbirth forever.
Biologically, the female body is designed to nurture children and to wear. During the process, for many women, this means a weight gain, stretch marks, relax breasts, and yes! – You guessed it, a big belly. This is the physical reality for most pregnant women. For many women, these physiological changes remain indefinitely after the birthyour child. The mass media not to glorify the beauty of authentic, pure sound of the average woman, the cook, and their families. In contrast to the supermodels and Playboy Bunny, is not to celebrate a picture of the true beauty of the body of a woman with stretch marks, soft generous hips and thighs, dimples and love shaped handles.
I think you are wondering how stretch marks have nothing to do with the media representation of women. Well beforeThe birth of my first child, without knowing it, my perception of my self-esteem was based on my appearance. I was proud to be able to reveal the summer to wear, have a flat stomach and go Bra-less. I was not a cover girl, but I felt I held my own. Although I am a student, most of which I have received compliments on my appearance. No one has complimented me to be intelligent, family or a good person. Accepting my new role andIdentity as a mother, I remember thinking in my small son, look: "I can not believe that this was absolutely beautiful baby inside of me." So I began to understand that stretch marks are on my chest and stomach symbolic femininity, strength and inner beauty. Well, when I read this fine work of Wiggly, they say, "You are beautiful, and God has blessed your body is like a ship for the journey of life."
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